Maybe you’re just beginning to consider homeschooling, or perhaps you’ve already made the decision to step into this sacred calling. Maybe the Lord stirred something in your heart — a conviction to bring your children home and guide their education yourself.

Perhaps it was the bullying, the tears, the constant homework, the rushed mornings… or simply the ache of knowing that you’re not the primary influence in your child’s life right now.

Whatever brought you here, I want to say — I see you, and I applaud your courage. Just entertaining this journey takes faith and intention. Welcome, friend.

Where Do You Begin?

You begin by deciding.
You take one small step forward, then another — with the Word in your heart and prayer on your lips.

1. Start Small and Breathe

You don’t need a full boxed curriculum, a perfectly color-coded lesson planner, or a Pinterest-worthy homeschool room.

Take your time. Learn. Research. Explore different homeschooling “styles” and see what resonates with your family. This is a journey, not a race.

2. Know Your Why

Why are you choosing to homeschool?

Let this question sit with you. Pray over it. Write it down and revisit it when doubt creeps in (because it will). Your why will keep you grounded and focused.

3. Check Your State’s Requirements

Look up your local homeschool laws and make sure you're in compliance. Some states require registration or a letter of intent — once that’s done, you’re officially on your way.

4. Establish a Gentle Rhythm

Predictability brings peace — but rigidity can steal your joy.

You don’t need a minute-by-minute schedule. Instead, create a daily rhythm that suits your family’s needs and pace. Here’s what our non-rigid day often looks like:

Morning: Breakfast, chores, Bible time, read-alouds, and lessons
Afternoon: Lunch, more school if needed, outdoor play, creative writing, free play
Evening: Dinner, family time, cleanup, bedtime

(Of course, if a structured schedule works better for your family — do what brings peace!)

5. Choose Resources That Align with Your Values

Select curriculum that reflects your family’s beliefs, priorities, and lifestyle. What works this year may not work next — and that’s okay!

I’ve switched curriculum mid-year when something just wasn’t clicking with my kids. Give yourself the freedom to adjust if needed, even mid-year. (If you’re here, Abiding Wild might be a great fit! 😉) Check out our shop for freebies to sample.

6. Prioritize Connection Over Curriculum

The relationship you’re building with your children is more important than checking every box in your lesson planner.

Be flexible. Go for a nature walk instead of pushing through another worksheet. Lean into curiosity and shared discovery.

If your days are ending in tears — yours or theirs — it may be time to step back and refocus on the heart of your homeschool: loving your child well and raising them up in the Lord.

7. Find Community

You weren’t meant to do this alone.

Whether it’s a local co-op, a nature-based group, or an online circle — community brings encouragement, ideas, and the powerful reminder that you’re not alone.

Through our Abiding Wild Family Membership, we offer an online community space to connect, ask questions, encourage, and pray for one another.

For those called to lead, our Co-op Leader License Membership includes weekly lessons, leadership training, and support to help you start and grow your own group.

8. Give Yourself Permission to Grow

Your first year will be full of learning — for you and your children. You are not behind.

You are building something sacred. Something slow, intentional, and beautiful.

Take it one step at a time. One day at a time. And know that you are not walking alone.

Until next time, sweet friends. ~Heather

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